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Wednesday September 22, 2004 |
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"Good luck is often with the man who doesn't include it in his plans." --Anonymous |
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As for this part up here, I'm going to embarrass myself with fashion and fitness talk, and then mention something or other in the news, just to fill up space.
¤ This may make me sound like the biggest girl on the Internet, but I must admit that while sorting through the closet Tuesday night, trying to find something to wear for a quick shopping trip, I tried on a pair of cargo pants that haven't fit me for over a year, and derived great satisfaction from finding that I could now wear them comfortably. And then I squealed in delight and leaped up and down and clapped really fast with open hands and shrieked, "Ohmigod ohmigod!" over and over again! Well, not so much that last part. I did put on the cargo pants and wear them proudly on our quick shopping run (bottled water, light sour cream, garlic hummus, fresh hot salsa, and 1 pound of fried chicken strips), and yes, it's entirely likely that I could eat my way back out of those pants very quickly, given the stuff we bought to eat. I won't though, since I've been steadily, if slowly, losing weight since the MC diet kick started me with a pound a day over a week. According to the MC diet blog page, that ordeal ended just over 2 months ago, at which time I weighed 164 first thing in the morning. I now weigh 160ish, so I've lost a pound every two weeks. As I said, steady, but slow. The odd thing is that I've really gone down in waist size in just the last week (my shorts are just hanging off of me and I've had to go in a belt notch), and I think it's due to the big increase in situps I worked into my work out. I've been doing situps at least once a day forever, but over the past couple of weeks, since I started going to martial arts class and feeling how weak and slow I really was at some things, I've increased my exercises away from class. Not much of a change in my cardio workout (hill running) but I've been doing several minutes of situps 4 or 5 times a day every day, and just like those situp machine commercials you see on TV, it's making a difference. I don't think I've changed my diet, I'm not doing more cardio, and I don't think I'm eating less... if anything, I've eaten worse lately, since we ate out most every meal last weekend when my mom was visiting. Yet my waist has gotten narrower, and my abs are really showing through, so I can only surmise that it's due to the sit ups. I must recommend them to everyone, for that reason. I'm also getting back to doing regular pullups, since we finally got a drill which enabled me to finally hang my pullup bar out back. I'd been doing 40 or 50 pushups every night before bed, and sometimes in the day when I remembered, but those always hurt my wrists and shoulders, and they take a while. Pullups are faster to do, and far more tiring, so I get my workout done very quickly, and I like doing them, so I do them more often. No real results from those yet, but it's been less than a week, and with the bar outside I just do them a few times a day, rather than every other time I got up from my desk, as I did back in San Diego when I lived alone and could hang a large, ugly metal bar from the living room ceiling without anyone to object to what it did to the decor. I might get into a real weight-lifting routine this winter though, since the local health club Malaya works out at was recently purchased by 24 Hour Fitness, and as part of that it's gone from being women-only to co-ed. It's a small place, but it's cheap, convenient, and I'll probably join up and start going regular once the winter arrives, and brings rain with it. My trail runs are great cardio, but it rains a lot here from December through April, and while I went out several times last winter/spring and ran after rains, coming home with mud up to my knees and shoes that I had to hose off with a scrub brush wasn't all that much fun. Not to mention the sheer physical difficulty of getting a good workout running up and down steep hills when they're covered in mud. I'm not that eager to trade my fun outdoor hiking and jogging for a stationary bike or a treadmill or an elliptical machine, but when the alternative is slipping around in the mud or getting no exercise at all, and when I can spend some time working the weight machines as well, it's probably worth $20 a month.
Speaking of food and fitness and such, while I was just looking over the MC Diet blog to see what my weight back then was, I read this passage with some amusement. It's the last entry I made on Day 3.
We did change our diets after the MC ordeal... for about two weeks. We then got steadily lazier about eating so many salads and cooking so much different stuff, and we've now reverted pretty much to our pre-MC diet, and yes, we've eaten everything mentioned above at least once in the past week. Well, everything but the nachos supreme. The difference now is that since the MC, the total amount of food we
take in is still much less than it was in the old days. We used to eat
more per meal, snack more, and eat more meals a day, and we were still
hungry. Somehow, after going 7 days without any solid food at all on the
MC program and then just nibbling on crackers and OJ and such for a
couple days after that, we got used to eating much less, and we've
managed to stick to that. It's a rare day that either Malaya or me have
three meals. Most days it's like 1 light meal, a few small snacks, and a
larger meal for dinner, with something for dessert late at night. And
it's not like we're starving ourselves or anything; we just don't The oddest thing for me is that since the MC, I hardly ever eat breakfast. I don't eat that much less during the rest of the day, but for most of my adult life I simply had to eat something when I got up. If I was in a hurry I'd just gobble a granola bar or something, and then feel hungry and weak for hours afterwards until I got some real food. But usually I ate a full meal, just like I would have for dinner, and I really needed it. Since the MC, a usual eating cycle for me is dinner with Malaya around 11pm, some sort of dessert around midnight (lately it's been a small bowl of light ice cream over fruit with some cereal as a crunchy topping), a snack around 3am, then bed at 5-6am. I sleep for 6 or 7 hours, get up at noonish, and I'm not hungry. I'll have some grapes or something, and drink water, but very seldom do I eat anything of substance until the late afternoon, at the earliest. Often we wait until dark to have a large meal, and sometimes that's Malaya's only meal of the day. And she's really active, working, going to the gym every day when she gets up. I eat more than she does, and I'll often have a meal around 6pm, then another one near midnight, and just a couple of snacks the rest of the time. And on that schedule, with the same old tasty food we used to get fat on, we're both still losing weight, slowly but surely. It's not really a diet plan I'd recommend to everyone, but it's working for us, apparently.
¤ CBS News broke some new memos about Bush's Vietnam Era National Guard AWOL issues, and as part of the story released what they said were some new memos from that era. The only problem is that, as it turns out, they weren't authentic memos from the 1970s; they were modern reproductions. Forgeries, and not very good ones at that, apparently, though they were good enough to fool CBS news. CBS stonewalled initially, insisting they were good, based largely on the source of the memos. CBS then apologized and admitted that they weren't authentic, and said they were "fake but accurate." which would be an interesting slogan for a news channel. Sort of the opposite of FOX News' practices? CBS' story is that even though the memos weren't actually typed by who they said they were typed by, when they said they were typed, the content of the memos is accurate, as reported by several people who were around Bush and Jack Killian at the time. I'm not doing a very good job recapping things since, as I admitted, I really didn't pay this whole thing much attention coming or going. The reason I didn't pay it any attention is simple; the new memos were basically irrelevant when they were real, and they're irrelevant now that they're fake (except when it comes to what they say about how CBS handled the whole thing). My take on the larger issue is pretty aptly summed up by the second panel in this week's This Modern World cartoon. Click it to see the whole thing: As the caption mentions, there is a ton of evidence and eyewitness testimony that Bush got strings pulled to get into the National Guard and into flight training despite not being very good at it, when he had the option to go to Vietnam he chose not to serve overseas, and he then vanished for many months towards the end of his five year commitment. I didn't actually think that was still an issue of debate, which was why I assumed the Republicans were trying to hard to smear Kerry's voluntary and highly-decorated service in Vietnam. If they could keep Kerry on the defensive with all those Swift Boat accusations, regardless of the fact that their charges were contradicted by all official Navy paperwork and records from the time, then that was a way to keep people from talking about how Dubya barely served at all. Beyond that, the bigger picture is what's been so lost in all the minutia of who did and didn't serve... why are we spending half the election cycle talking about a war fought 30+ years ago, when there's one going on right now? It will be so nice in another 10 years when the politicians are young enough that they won't have been of age to serve in Vietnam, and we don't have to have another endless round of who did and didn't go and why and so on, when it couldn't be less relevant to the issues of today. True, it's amusing to see Vice President Dick "sought five student deferments and had a baby 9 months and 2 days after policy changed to draft single husbands" Cheney run around attacking Kerry for maybe not being wounded all that badly when he earned one of his three Purple Hearts, but how does that sort of nonsense really help people make an informed choice as to who the next most powerful man in the free world should be?
¤ Despite the expenses of bandwidth, there sure seem to be a lot of sites around now that do nothing but host tons of funny pictures or short videos. One I've been looking at lately is Big-Boys.com, and while the name and design aren't anything to get excited about, they do have some very amusing content, mostly in the form of reader-submitted amateur videos. The first link I saw pointing there was this one, of a truly amazing rollerblade jump, and then I clicked through much of their top 50, conveniently-linked on the left nav bar. The movies are the best features, this gymnast demonstration cracked me up, and you'll even enjoy the photos, if you are endlessly-entertained by topless photos of female pseudo-celebrities. In any event you'll find plenty there to watch and laugh at, at least if you can define humor as, "bad things happening to other people." Another similar site is ENWhore.com, though they don't have such a convenient video ranking or display system. I'm sure you could easily waste a few hours there anyway. Yet more videos, hundreds of them, can be found on MuchoSucko.com. I recommend that you go right to the most popular videos, since there is a lot of chaff per wheat ratio. The movies on all three of these sites, and numerous others like them, can be pretty easily categorized into four groups: porn/model nudity/bloopers, amateur extreme sports mishaps, things (cars, trucks, planes) blowing up, and random humorous movies. If those sound like fun to you, go for it. As always when surfing, a high speed connection will help a lot. |
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I will give him credit for something though; he realizes I'm toying with him. He's lost in his mania, but he is aware enough to tell when someone (me in this case) is engaging him in argument without any personal involvement. I think he's used to mails like the one I posted from a reader in the July 2003 mailbag, where people get so incensed by his particular brand of holier than thou Christianity that they just curse him and yell at him. I did nothing of the sort in my mail, since I see him as a sort of science project, and an intellectual exercise. His opinions are entirely meaningless to me, (As, I suspect, mine are to him.) so I'm able to argue against him from a scientific point of view without getting upset or angry or passionate at all. And when I don't rise to his outrageous comment bait he doesn't get the satisfaction of seeing another sinning pro-gay atheist (as he likely sees most of the world) lose his cool when faced with Biblical-based arguments. And so he tells me never to email him again and that he won't read it if I do. I'm actually glad he said that, since I got sick of this whole exercise about an email and a half ago and it's nice to have an excuse to stop. I never would have mailed him at all if not for this blog, since I knew I could post it here as a day's update, and once he replied once I only carried on through a second mail to see what he'd do when I ignored his misdirection arguments. Not that my arguments were perfect (I should have proofread and gotten my wording and logic tighter.) but I was curious to see if he could keep on track even when it meant making painfully weak arguments and basically admitting that everyone else who interpreted the bible was wrong, while he was right. And as you'll see, he sure did. As I did before, my email comments are double indented, his Fisking replies are single intended, and my current comments are in black with no indentation.
Then why did you do nothing but go off topic with rants about homosexual pedophiles and avoid my actual questions?
From these two emails, it's clear that one of his diversionary tactics is to deny that there is any such thing as a "hate crime" by expanding the definition so widely as to make it meaningless. He's not an idiot, so he surely knows that "hate crimes" are actual things, and as our legal system defines them, they are crimes motivated by bigotry of one kind or another. More on this in a bit. I'm not defending the definition of "hate crimes" or attacking them as bullshit of the "thought police" or anything like that. I'm simply using the term as it's used in debate. He's refusing to do that, in order to try and obscure the issue.
Well actually yes it is "your figure," since you slapped into an email without attribution.
Note his regular grammatical errors or wording mistakes. Saying "mention" twice here, for instance. I wouldn't consider pointing this out, since after all, this is email and I'm not running a grammar site. You'll see why I mention this shortly.
Here's his, "there are no hate crimes/all crimes are hate crimes" argument, which is fine for an opinion, but he's clearly doing it here just to avoid the issue, when there are clearly-stated legal definitions of "hate crime" in the US, and quite often there are heavier punishments for such crimes. Since gay bashing is quite often prosecuted as a hate crime, it's clear why he wants to pretend hate crimes don't exist. I only brought up "hate crimes" in the first place since as I said in the first email, the media always pays more attention to crimes that have those sorts of extenuating circumstances. Remember that black guy who was dragged to death behind a pickup a few years ago in Texas? Remember that the drivers were three white guys? How much media coverage do you think that would have gotten if all the people involved had been of the same race? Again, I'm not making a value judgment with this, I'm just bringing it up as an example of the disproportionately heavy coverage hate crimes receive by the media, which was part of my initial argument to Mr. CAP Alerts. He obviously doesn't want to address that argument, which is why he's just ignoring it and trying to confuse the definition of a "hate crime" in order to further his misdirection.
So is working on Sundays and eating swine and wearing certain types of mixed textile clothing. The bible is full of ancient moral codes; a large part of being an intelligent adult is deciding which parts of those ancient writings you're going to pay attention to.
Yes, after all, verifiable facts simply get in the way of pre-conceived notions based on ancient literature.
Note this one? He's acting as if I'm trying to excuse one thing by saying something else is not as bad. I didn't say that, I just included that as an example while trying to get clarification of his point. (You'll see him doing exactly what he accuses me of shortly.)
Because that organization doesn't exist in any real sense, other than as a bogey-man for right wing Christians such as Mr. CAP Alerts and a thing for antisocial gay men to claim they sympathize with just to get a rise out of people. Besides, this is another attempted diversion. I'm questioning Mr. CAP Alerts' statement to see if he's serious. I somehow doubt a representative of NAMBLA, if one could be located, would have much of an informed opinion on that matter.
I was puzzled by his comment here, until it became clear in a moment. He's playing Mr. Grammar Police!
Since all thieves/murders like to be seen in a public place, for hours, in the location of their intended victim, and allow numerous witnesses to see them leave with him. Right? On the bright side, we don't have to worry about Mr. CAP Alerts getting away with murder when he eventually snaps, if this is any indication of his criminal acumen.
Ahh, and suddenly there are hate crimes! When it suits his purpose, at least.
Yes, I'm saying the 2nd crime would be more hateful than the 1st. He's confused a bit.
And the jail house recanting of convicted murders is to be trusted because...? Also, God forbid CAP Guy spends 5 minutes reading up on the actual court case he's so often quoting as an example of those horrible pedophile homosexuals. Those pesky facts again.
Just as his reply is a very convenient way to dodge paying attention to the thousands of obvious errors and contradictions in the Bible.
I'd be happy to answer that question. Since I base nothing in my belief system and morality on what any of the various, millennium-old " holy" books say, such a discovery would have no impact on me whatsoever.
Yes, he's really trying to critique my email grammar here. Twice. The fact that he's wrong in both cases is irrelevant. It's just a sign of how desperately he's trying to restore his happy superior feeling, I guess. If I'm ever in an email argument and find myself resorting to spell-checking and typo-counting, feel free to just tell me straight out that I've lost. I'll try to take it like a man.
This is my favorite part. Everyone else is wrong in how they use the Bible. Centuries of Christian scholars and religious leaders; all misguided or incorrect or their interpretations. Only Mr. CAP Alerts, in his nearly-infinite wisdom, can correctly apply the nearly-infinitely contradictory Biblical verses with accuracy.
Wait, I just said that people have used the bible to excuse and justify innumerable hateful and horrible things, and he said they were all wrong. But then, a paragraph later, he says that biblical scriptures can only be used to back up the truth. Um... could we keep the complete contradictions in your logic more than once sentence apart, sir?
Remember earlier when he tried to say I was excusing pedophilia by mentioning heterosexual underaged lust? He's doing the exact same thing here; dodging the "Christians kill while saying the bible tells them to do it" issue by bringing up off- topic "other religions kill Christians too" arguments. I said nothing about Christians being the biggest persecutors, (though I think historically it could be proven) or Christianity being an evil religion, or no one ever doing anything good based on what they thought the Bible was telling them, or anything like that. He's not real good at addressing my actual arguments, since it's much more fun to just go off topic with his pre-rehearsed arguments. To address his argument anyway, Muslims, Hindus, and Zoroastrians could be killing 5,000,000 Christians a year on live television and it still wouldn't have anything to do with my comment about a long historical precedent of Christians in positions of power using biblical quotations to self justify their evil acts and repression, racism, sexism, and homophobia. It also doesn't mean modern day Christians are doing the same thing, though I certainly think they are when it comes to gay issues and abortion, but the fact that Mr. CAP Alerts doesn't even bother trying to address this pretty much concedes the argument to me, eh? As for those outrageous numbers of dead Christians, they've been completely debunked, though to pull a CAP Alerts, I'm not going to go dig up the URLs I read about them. As best I recall, they're basically counting every single dead Christian in areas where there was any sort of ethnic cleansing or religious warfare, and every single person killed by any group who ever killed a single Christian. Over-counting in every way possible, in other words.
So again, in case you missed it the first time; everyone else in history who interpreted the bible to back up their acts was wrong, if their acts disagree with Mr. CAP Alerts' modern sensibilities. No matter that in their time they had 100% agreement among the Christians, complete approval of religious leaders, etc. Quoth Mr. CAP Alerts, "I'm right, everyone else, even devout Christians, is wrong." Must be nice to live in that sort of a cocoon, eh?
His first comment is just foolish; I'm obviously not saying he's literally doing those things; I'm pointing out that others used the bible exactly as he's doing, to defend practices we find abhorrent today. Secondly, by putting me into a group I don't belong in, he's showing evidence of me doing that to him?
Again, God forbid he gets his facts straight before repeatedly spouting them on his website. More on his insane logic below. And if there's any spitting going on, it's by him, as he Fisks my email up into half-sentence blocks in order to nitpick every little point, while avoiding taking on any of the larger issues.
Calling his reasoning "logic" is a bit of a stretch, but just consider: There are hundreds of news articles online about the Jesse murder, most of which list the full catalogue of torments those two pedophiles inflicted upon the kid, the tools they used, how long it took, etc. Yet Mr. CAP Alert's logic is that they list all of that, but sneakily-suppress the bit about the gasoline-soaked underwear... for what reason exactly? Like it's okay that they raped and drugged and suffocated the kid, just so long as they didn't use gasoline also?
He's just embarrassing himself here, playing a game with the name of the site that compiled the articles. Look for yourself; just at the top of the page I see long quoted stories from FOX News, CBS, The Seattle Times, and dozens from the local Bentonville, Arkansas newspaper. That's quite a conspiracy to keep the "gasoline" part out of the story, while reporting everything thing else. And you thought CAP Guy was only right and everyone else was wrong when it came to interpreting the Bible?
Well no, there really aren't a lot of opinions about factual errors. They're wrong or they're not wrong. He's wrong, he cites no sources for his misinformation other than his own obviously failing memory, and he refuses to spend two minutes of online research time to educate himself. Now tragically enough, there was another much-publicized pedophile murder of a young boy, and in that case the killers did use a gasoline-soaked rag to kill him. It seems likely that Mr. CAP Alerts read about that one and transposed it with the Jesse Dirkhising murder. I typed "gasoline matthew shepard" into google and immediately found a link to an article in much the same vein at Mr. CAP Alert's comments. The fact that he's either too stupid or too lazy to do that himself (but can take the hour+ he spent nit picking over my emails) should tell you something about him. I'm not sure what it tells, but something, at any rate.
Actually, by all evidence he dearly loves these spitting contests, since he's the one doing all the spitting. I have tried hard to stick to major points, theological and historical and have tried to cite facts and mainstream news articles and other things when I offered opinion. He does nothing of the kind; his only stats are from disreputable right wing sources, his opinions are his own or derived from his interpretation of the "most interpreted" and "most differed about in interpretation" book in human history, and his email responses are
Of course he says that, but you know he'd be unable to read another mail from me, and would probably reply to it if he thought he could nitpick successfully again. And yes, after trying to ignore it for a day, I couldn't resist mailing him again. Here's my mail #3, and yes, I got a bit snarkier as I saw that reasoned argument wasn't going anywhere and my patience with his evasions grew short. Plus, since he promised not to read my email or write me back... though you can probably guess how well he kept that promise...
Subject: In Conclusion
Thanks for your time and your comments.
I will not further clutter the main blog page with his 3rd reply, but I will post it with the rest of our correspondence, probably as an addition to the existing CAP Alerts movie critic page. And I'll mention it in the blog when it goes online, assuming anyone really wants to read more of this stuff. |
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